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Help me solve this genealogy research problem.
I live in America and only speak English
Back in June 2021 I paid a Serbian based researcher in Advance to obtain list of vital birth death and marriage records from Herceg Novi Provence [not included here] in Montenegro of specific people.
Below is the entire correspondence where he promises results soon, sends me nothing ever, and eventually informs me there is some sort of political problem between Serbia and Montenegro that means he cannot get the records.
I have removed all the identifying information.
This is not the delay and confusion I expected.
Can you explain what the political problem is and how I can solve it so HE can get the records.
He has never explained the problem nor given me any time line to solve the problem.
All email with him follows after hiring him and paying him the money follows:
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Re: my mom’s dad’s dad is unknown but from Montenegro
You replied on Sun 6/6/2021 4:46 PM
You replied on Sun 6/6/2021 4:46 PM
EMAIL FROM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher]
Sun 6/6/2021 11:58 AM
To: You
Thank you for contact.
Can work from begin to end, what will. What is your budget?
Payment is via PayPal money request - invoice.
[First Name of Researcher]
On Sun, Jun 6, 2021 at 5:51 PM [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me] wrote:
I live in America. I only speak English.
I want to have some known people born 1850-1900’s vital records look up to trace their ancestry back another generation.
All are from Trebinje or the province of Herceg Novi in Montenegro in Mokrine, Sutorina, Grahavo, Podi, or Kameno.
I don’t need hard or expensive genealogy services at the moment. I just need some know people looked up to get their trees one more generation back.
All these people I know of immigrated to America or Australia and their descendants DNA match me the correct ways.
What is the best way to proceed?
I have had no success contacting anybody in Yugoslavia.
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Re: my mom’s dad’s dad is unknown but from Montenegro
You replied on Mon 6/7/2021 4:18 AM
You replied on Mon 6/7/2021 4:18 AM EMAIL FROM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher
Sun 6/6/2021 7:24 PM
To: You
For begin need advance. End is when you say end. What will invest in this research for begin work? 10 hours is 250 euro.
I hope understand. Work is possible, you have good data for begin. I need study this data and begin.
[First Name of Researcher]
On Sun, 6 Jun 2021, 22:46 [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me], wrote:
regarding your saying “beginning to end”
My late mom’s dad was born in 1914.
He never knew who his father was; my mom’s dad never told him.
So, I am not running a “begging to end” project; this has been going on for 107 years so far...
I just want to make the “next big unit of progress” and then reassess etc. since I don’t know where I’ll be then.
Re: my mom’s dad’s dad is unknown but from Montenegro
You replied on Mon 6/7/2021 4:14 AM
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EMAIL FROM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher]
Mon 6/7/2021 4:12 AM
To: You
I live in Serbia. I perform phone and other contact with registry, church and other sources. Any travel or live research in Montenegro is very expensive and hard.
[First Name of Researcher]
On Mon, Jun 7, 2021 at 10:09 AM [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me] wrote:
Somebody has to go in person to archives and church records in Montenegro to get the datal from each town source or each church source—Serbian orthodox. I don’t know if it even exists.
What country do you live in?
They don’t let foreigners look it up.
Re: my mom’s dad’s dad is unknown but from Montenegro
You replied on Wed 7/14/2021 6:11 PM
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EMAIL FROM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher]
Mon 6/7/2021 4:35 AM
To: You
- Maybe understand, maybe no.
I am professional researcher in Serbia and can work with best method - best for you.
Consultation is free, but you must decide.
For begin you can buy 10 hours. And then you can say real what will. RESEARCH IN MONTENEGRO IS POSSIBLE. I CAN MAKE FAMILY TREES, MAKE CONTACT WITH RELATIVES...
When you pay first hours I can begin work. Where is end, you must know. After first result can pay new... to end...
I send PayPal - Invoice request for 10 hours.
I hope, understand this work system. This is standard genealogy research system for these cases.
[Last Name of Researcher] [First Name of Researcher], [Street Address of Researcher]
, Serbia
On Mon, Jun 7, 2021 at 10:18 AM [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me] [ > wrote:
Don’t study the data I sent too much; just glance at it; the point is that I studied all the USA data I could and found people in Yugoslavia of interest.
and that’s all I know about them. and want to go back further on those and other people.
All these and other people should eventually have their trees meet and I am related to their descendants.
I can give you the statistics later.
So, if you search and get the data and find connections between these people it would solve the problems.
I could give you more info
Do waste time studying them; the point is those are people whose ancestors need researching etc. and where they were from and when they were born and what kind of info I know.
Re: my mom’s dad’s dad is unknown but from Montenegro
You replied on Sun 6/13/2021 11:51 AM
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EMAIL FROM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher]
Thu 6/10/2021 6:21 AM
To: You
Received.
Can begin work from Monday.
First info middle of next week.
[First Name of Researcher]
On Thu, Jun 10, 2021 at 12:09 PM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher] wrote:
Hi.
Great preparation of task. I think, clear. This can be many work...
Can pay. This 10 hours for begin. I grant maximum results what is possible.
[First Name of Researcher]
On Thu, Jun 10, 2021 at 11:59 AM [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me] wrote:
IGNORE ALL PREVIOUS EMAIL.
IS THIS CLEAR ENOUGH OR DOABLE?
IF SO, I WILL PAY THE 10 HOURS
I do not know how good your English is or how well I have explained this.
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Re: more [on a specific person]
EMAIL FROM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher]
Sun 6/13/2021 2:05 PM
To: You
OK, received.
[First Name of Researcher]
On Sun, Jun 13, 2021 at 5:52 PM [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me] wrote:
I have been unable to seize control of these findagrave memorials due to the owners hoarding them; hence they don’t have all data I want to put on them
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The most incomplete is [on a specific person]
Attached in more info on him.
I THINK THAT IS HIS NATURALIZATION BUT NOT SURE; NOT SURE IF PAGE 5 IS SAME PERSON; NOTE DIFFERENT SPELLING.
Re: my mom’s dad’s dad is unknown but from Montenegro
You replied on Fri 8/20/2021 11:39 AM
You replied on Fri 8/20/2021 11:39 AM EMAIL FROM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher]
Thu 7/15/2021 12:05 AM
To: You
Hi.
I was on vacation. Before go, I extract important data and relations from your documents what be very serious work and send this data to my cooperators in this region. Work is in progress.
For further work I must know what is your budget for this research.
Regards, [First Name of Researcher]
On Thu, Jul 15, 2021 at 12:11 AM [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me] wrote:
Did you receive the payment last month I sent?
Is everything ok?
I paid on your PayPal invoice one month ago; I hope it worked.
Please give me some sort of status report on something.
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Re: my mom’s dad’s dad is unknown but from Montenegro
You replied on Thu 8/12/2021 2:27 PM
You replied on Thu 8/12/2021 2:27 PM
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EMAIL FROM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher]
Thu 7/15/2021 11:12 AM
To: You
In work.
On Thu, 15 Jul 2021, 16:50 [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me], wrote:
Start with this payment and I will see what you produce with it before discussing more money.
You replied on Tue 10/26/2021 4:55 PM
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EMAIL FROM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher]
Wed 8/25/2021 10:36 AM
To: You
[First Name of Me], in vacation period work is very hard. I hope, can understand. Work is in progress.
I hope, first checked results can have shortly.
[First Name of Researcher]
On Wed, Aug 25, 2021 at 4:03 PM [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me] wrote:
August 25, 2021
[First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher], [Street Address of Researcher], Serbia
Hello
It has been almost three months since I paid your advance
So far you have sent me absolutely no information. You have sent me a single vital statistic from the explicit list I have requested. This should not be hard
You have only replied mid-July to say you were on vacation.
You only wanted to know what my budget was. Which is substantial but I told you to produce something with what you have.
You have not replied to any of my email in six weeks.
I have put aside all other genealogy wok since June first waiting for various results so this has an opportunity cost for me.
If you are not interested in the work, please return my money via pay pal. If there is a misunderstanding clear it up now. EMAIL:
Blind carbon copied to relatives in Montenegro: …
ADVANCE PAID EARLY JUNE
Thu 6/10/2021 6:13 AM
Hello, [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me]
You sent €250.00 EUR to [Last Name of Researcher] [First Name of Researcher]
YOUR NOTE TO [Last Name of Researcher] [First Name of Researcher]
Genealogy research in Montenegro. Advance, 10 working hours for begin.
Transaction Details
Transaction ID: xxxxxxxxx June 10, 2021
SENDER RECIPIENT
[First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me] [Last Name of Researcher] [First Name of Researcher]
[Email Name of Me]
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Funds will be available to your recipient on or before: June 11, 2021.
Re: results
You replied on Tue 11/9/2021 6:51 PM
You replied on Tue 11/9/2021 6:51 PM EMAIL FROM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher]
Sat 10/30/2021 1:58 AM
To: You
What say, work is in progress. But with Montenegro, in this political situation, work is very hard.
Exist good contacts but not can send data.
For now.... I hope, this can be resolved fast....
[First Name of Researcher]
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On Tue, Oct 26, 2021 at 10:55 PM [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me] wrote:
You have had two months of non-vacation; please send me all you have found according to the specific exact instructions.
You replied on Mon 11/15/2021 6:38 PM
You replied on Mon 11/15/2021 6:38 PM
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EMAIL FROM [First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher]
Mon 11/15/2021 11:41 AM
To: You
In this moment, any communication with institutions in Montenegro is paused. Not because Covid. Because restrictions of Montenegro system (politics). Must wait.
[First Name of Researcher]
On Wed, Nov 10, 2021 at 12:51 AM [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me] wrote:
This really is not working for me. I paid you five months ago, and you have not delivered a single public record. Are you capable of getting anything in these current covid and political times? Why is this is going to change?
Re: results
You replied on Wed 12/8/2021 5:01 PM
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[First Name of Researcher] [Last Name of Researcher]
Fri 11/19/2021 2:41 AM
To: You
Mister, you pay “Genealogy research in Montenegro. Advance, 10 working hours for begin”.
Work HAS begun, your data is study, based on your data work is preparing, contacts with institutions in Montenegro is established but NOW, because INNER Montenegro political situation I not can officially check and get data what need. This is dynamic situation. And, + Covid19 again problem... But this all situation can be changed, I hope, shortly.
I work what is these 10 hours. Of course, you will any info, any information. But I not can send to you any personal data information what know without checking. I must wait for this checking - confirm of data with documents. For this checking and documented data, you not must pay again.
Please your patience. Work is in progress.
Thank you.
On Thu, Nov 18, 2021 at 7:55 AM [First Name of Me] [Last Name of Me] wrote:
Please return 10 hour = 250 euro my advance I paid you June 10 via PayPal now since you cannot do the work. I have given you over five months to produce ANYTHING.
Email me when the situation changes.
PayPal to me
Hi,
Never ever pay without an escrow service or in terms especially with these amounts. Even with COVID life is normal in Serbia and Montenegro and everything is open. Can you PM me his/her info so I can check if they ring a bell?
Regards,
Sergej
I have all his info, but I don't want to aggravate him at this time.
I have a name, address etc. but I can't confirm it is really that person.
I'm not 100% sure how to mail YOU only privately something with this forum since I am a newcomer. How do I do this?
On the top right under Account it has an option for messages 😉